Finding your wedding style
Congratulations on your engagement! Discovering your wedding style is one of the most exciting parts of the planning process—it sets the tone for your big day and guides all your decisions from venue and decor to dress and invitations.
Here’s a step-by-step guide to help newly engaged couples discover their wedding style:
Step 1: Dream without limits
Before diving into logistics, take a moment to imagine your ideal wedding day.
Ask each other:
What’s your dream wedding like?
Indoors or outdoors?
Formal or casual?
Big celebration or intimate gathering?
Inspiration tools:
Browse Pinterest, Instagram, wedding blogs, or magazines.
Create a shared vision board or mood board.
Step 2: Explore common wedding styles
Here are a few popular wedding styles to get your creativity flowing:
Classic/Traditional: Elegant attire, timeless decor, formal setting.
Modern/Minimalist: Clean lines, neutral palette, sleek venues.
Bohemian: Free-spirited vibe, earthy tones, natural settings.
Rustic: Barns, string lights, woodsy elements, cozy charm.
Romantic: Soft florals, candlelight, pastel tones.
Glamorous: Bold colors, dramatic lighting, luxe materials.
Destination: Scenic location, travel-inspired details.
Vintage: Retro elements, antique decor, nostalgic feel.
Cultural/Traditional: Celebrating heritage and customs.
Step 3: Consider your personal style & story
Think about your lifestyle, shared interests, and personalities.
What kind of spaces do you love (e.g., cozy cabin, modern loft, lush garden)?
What colors or aesthetics are already part of your home or wardrobe?
Do you want your wedding to reflect your culture, travels, hobbies?
Step 4: Think about the setting
Your venue has a big impact on your style.
Venue Ideas by Style:
Garden or vineyard = romantic, rustic, or boho
Urban rooftop or gallery = modern, minimalist
Historic mansion = vintage, classic
Beach or mountain = destination, natural, laid-back
Step 5: Build a mood board
Collect images, color swatches, textures, and florals that reflect your vision.
Use Canva, Pinterest, or even a physical scrapbook.
Look for patterns in color schemes, fabrics, lighting, and attire.
Step 6: Name your style
Once you've narrowed it down, give your style a name that helps you stay focused (e.g., “Romantic Garden Party” or “Chic Urban Elegance”).
Bonus: Wedding style quiz
If you're still not sure, try taking a wedding style quiz (many are available online from sites like The Knot, Zola, or Brides).
Looking forward to hearing about the style you discover!
